Following 2018

Following | Serve

Humility and service are at the very core of what it means to be a follower of Jesus. You'll never completely be the person Jesus wants you to be without being humble. Humility that leads to service was the WAY of Jesus. It's what he taught, what he demonstrated, It's who he was. That's why service is such an important part of being a faithful disciple. 


This Week's Action Step: 

Go out of your way this week to humbly serve someone in an unexpected way.


Small Group

Small Group Questions:

  • 1.  Can you think of a time when someone went out of their way to humbly serve you in a completely unexpected way?  What did they do for you and how did you respond?

    2.  Have you ever gone out of your way to humbly serve someone else in a completely unexpected way?  What did you do for them and how did they respond?

    3.  One of my points this week was that we don’t serve God because he’s needy, but that serving allows us to participate in what God is already doing.  Can you recall a time when you truly felt like God used you (or allowed you to participate) in something bigger that He was doing in someone’s life?  Why do you think God does that?  Why does He choose to use us?  Wouldn’t it be more efficient if He just did it without us?

    4.  Another point this week was that serving is an indicator that we’re becoming more like Jesus… who we should be following.  So, if that’s true, what does the opposite tell us?  If there’s not a regular habit or pattern of serving in our lives, what might that be an indication of?  

    5.  My final point this week was that serving is part of our sanctification (spiritual growth).  How so?  How does regular patterns or habits of service help us grow spiritually?  Maybe you can even give an example from your own life.

Following | Give

Radical giving and sharing is part of discipleship. Consumerism and individualism are powerful forces that make it hard. What do we do?


This Week's Action Step: 

1. Find a financial accountability partner.

2. Start regularly giving

3. Join a small group


Small Group

Small Group Questions:

  • When you read Acts 4:32-35, what things jump out to you about the way they treated their money and possessions?
  • Do you think that kind of radical giving and sharing is possible today?
  • Related to consumerism, we said it’s a kind of religion that teaches us that our lives are incomplete, obsolete, and boring unless we’re constantly buying new things and that it’s goal is to create dissatisfaction in our lives.
    • How have you experience our culture pushing “the organized creation of dissatisfaction” in your life?
    • How do you combat that? How do you learn to be satisfied with what you have?
  • If everything that exists is, technically, God’s, why do we have such a hard time giving?
  • Discuss this quote: “If our goods are not available to the community when it is clearly right and good, then they are stolen goods.”
  • How might understanding that the church is our family help us treat our possessions more communally and less privately?
  • Do you have people in your life who are holding you accountable financially?
    • Our financial life should not be more private than our sex life.
  • What’s one small, specific step you can take to make giving a regular part of your life?

Following | Worship

Corporate worship is something God designed and planned for his people to practice regularly. However, by the time of Jesus worship had become something it was not intended to be. Jesus actually got really angry with some worshippers. Understanding why Jesus got so angry could help our worship when we gather as the church. 


This Week's Action Step: 

Build a healthy rhythm of worship into your life by making a commitment to be at church 3 to 4 times per month this year. 


Small Group

Small Group Questions:

1.  Why is corporate worship important for followers of Jesus?

2.  What do you most enjoy/look forward to about corporate worship here at the Vista?

3.  What are some things we can do to make sure we’re ready (our hearts are prepared) for worship?  How can we make sure our worship is reverent?

4.  Read John 2:13-17.  Jesus got really angry.  Take a moment and discuss righteous indignation.  When is it okay to be angry and what are appropriate ways to express that anger?

5.  Read John 4:23-24.  What does it mean to worship “in spirit and in truth?”  What is the danger if one of those two things are missing in our worship?